SEXY IDEAS ON HOW TO SPICE UP A RELATIONSHIP

Being in a relationship is great but at times the bedroom pleasures can go a bit stale. You know where he is going to touch you, the moves he pulls and just how long he is going to last. Well what can i say but time to spice things up.  Using  a vibrator and oh yes that can feel great (A bit of self indulgence never goes amiss), but its not something you might not want to use all the time or you might offend him, Which can lead to a non functioning and rather sad manhood which is definitely defeating the object. Don’t get me wrong, there are numerous sex toys out there with all different functions, (some that will make your eyes water by just looking at them), that are a great way of adding spice to bedroom. So don’t knock them until you have tried.

Sexy lingerie will always get his pulses going but have you tried talking about fantasies. You don’t even have to go through with the actual fantasy but by talking about it in depth could have the same effect. Imagination is a great tool.  If you have never approached this subject or feel that your lover could be a bit shy about the subject give him options. This is where their imagination will go into overdrive just thinking of you in that fantasy should get him very excited. And if you’re brave enough on your next encounter greet him wearing the actual outfit that he fantasised about during your previous lovemaking. This should really get his pulses going.  There are various games that can broaden the horizon, such as strip poker, board games such as a game for sex consisting of 2 or more players.  There are so many ways in which you can spice up your relationship. Here are just a few to get you started.

 1: Have a romantic meal & whilst the waiter takes your order feel up your lover!

2: Try something you never have before, a public place, bondage, blind folds, it will bring a whole new dimension to your lovemaking.

3: Spice things up by giving your partner pleasure at the most unexpected times and places.eg under the office desk, in the shower

4: Talk to your partner about dressing up for them, and then take fantasy into reality when you meet up later that evening. Experiment and share your ultimate fantasy with your partner.

5: Treat yourself and your partner to some self indulgence, and get the toys out

6: The feel of someone's touch is an amazing sensation. Take advantage of this and treat & explore with your partner.

7: Enhance your communication with your partner through the use of sight, smell, taste and touch. Get the whipped cream out!!!

8: Welcome your lover in the nude or completely decked out in sexy lingerie

9: If you and your partner agree, step outside the ordinary and be a lot more daring, domination, sex toys or games spring to mind

10: Chocolate Sauce mmmmmmmmmm what more can i say!!!

11: Turn off the lights, light some candles, turn on some soft music and take turns giving each other a sensual full body massage.

12: Explore sexual communication and learn how to talk dirty, it can enhance sexual satisfaction and intimacy

13: Wake your partner up in the middle of the night with a bit of oral pleasure

14: Food and seduction have gone hand in hand. Get a little creative in the bedroom by adding a new dimension to your love play